tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post6467871116592132108..comments2023-05-24T16:57:15.030+02:00Comments on Writing the Wrongs of Narcissistic Parenting: PlateauPronoia Agapehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-7583249214720364202013-04-12T01:37:28.948+02:002013-04-12T01:37:28.948+02:00thank you to all of you for your pure honesty...fo...thank you to all of you for your pure honesty...for the comfort the familiarity of your words brings to my broken heart...tattered soul...but one that is determined to conquer this twist of humanity....my mother passed away almost 3 yrs ago and since then, i have never been more terrified and alone...yet possess an odd sense of clarity that is becoming "easier" to process...my father is a malignant narcissist to the most cruel...abusive...mean...and down right gut wrenching level...my family has abandoned me since her death and i am a survivor of severe domestic violence..abuse and torture....i am learning to truly "see" me...like me....forgive me and begin my intellectual and emotional journey towards validation and closure (of some kind)....my heart thanks u all...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-35209637581253406502013-04-04T13:35:00.589+02:002013-04-04T13:35:00.589+02:00Done. Sorry for any inconvenience. I just needed a...Done. Sorry for any inconvenience. I just needed a picture of a phoenix rising, found yours on google images and used it. It's a good graphic.<br /><br />I have now drawn my own rising phoenix in Paint and will be using that instead.Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-24118020636387928592013-03-31T23:35:28.765+02:002013-03-31T23:35:28.765+02:00I designed the phoenix graphic you're using as...I designed the phoenix graphic you're using as your avatar back in 2005.<br /><br />I have used my design on t-shirts, mugs, my podcast, and blogs, and I have not given anyone permission to use. it.<br /><br />Please change your avatar immediately.Jay Noelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11571082583740830927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-46554291379206685662013-02-14T22:36:28.931+01:002013-02-14T22:36:28.931+01:00"I wasn't scared or even overly triumphan..."I wasn't scared or even overly triumphant. It was just normal."<br /><br />I think I'm getting to this place too. At first, it seemed "un-normal" to be...well, to just respond without some huge emotional attachment to it. Like a normal human being. But it's nice to remove a lot of the "ACoN" from my life and just start living.<br /><br />Wishing you continued contentment!<br />jessiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06399613921768190064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-17820232910044508202013-02-14T20:23:56.145+01:002013-02-14T20:23:56.145+01:00PA,
I love this post. I love that there's so ...PA,<br />I love this post. I love that there's so much YOU: your voice, your choices, your life - in it. You sound strong, friend. Verrrrrry strong. <br /><br />Love,<br />VanciVancihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12324986021125687199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-61528740828050379942013-02-14T17:24:34.048+01:002013-02-14T17:24:34.048+01:00I love seeing the way in which you have developed ...I love seeing the way in which you have developed over the last few years (especially the last year), and am very inspired by it. <br /><br />One thing, though — you need to work on not feeling that you are doing a worse job than your parents. This feeling may actually get in the way of being the normal, human parent that you are. Perhaps you could talk about this feeling during your last session? Don't be so hard on yourself. Look at your normal, happy, opinionated kids who actually feel comfortable enough to have melt downs and to scream right in front of you. You're obviously doing something right. I don't believe us ACONs ever felt free enough to throw tantrums, or even to cry. <br /><br />J. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-11340149967048927622013-02-14T17:03:25.632+01:002013-02-14T17:03:25.632+01:00Sounds like your life is busy and full of good thi...Sounds like your life is busy and full of good things, PA and you are in a good place right now. I'm excited for you as you work on your dissertation, feel comfortable saying "No" to your father and finding a balance in your life in general. Also, congratulations on the publications of your work-that's quite an achievement!<br />My personal feeling FWIW is T isn't a life time commitment; we know when we're ready to discontinue. And you sound very ready.<br />Thank you so very much for sharing your journey thus far. Your thoughts, feelings, experiences and Leonard Cohen selections ;) have given me much to reflect on as well.<br />TW Tundra Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12262066568878267648noreply@blogger.com