tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post7322677948061484118..comments2023-05-24T16:57:15.030+02:00Comments on Writing the Wrongs of Narcissistic Parenting: The lady doth protest too muchPronoia Agapehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-3322309769911997652011-05-24T16:12:46.052+02:002011-05-24T16:12:46.052+02:00Weird. This comment was marked "spam" an...Weird. This comment was marked "spam" and the only one from you I could find! Sorry you were having trouble. Blogger is still going nuts, it appears.<br /><br />I'm basing my wondering on this issue solely on the fact that,as you said,"narcissists are known to sexually abuse their own children, whom they see as "extensions of their own body"", and on these two inappropriate comments. Not enough. But still, I'm not discarding the idea: they'll do anything if they know they'll get away with it.<br /><br />I'm waiting for that post!Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-39513889404978221382011-05-24T15:02:39.051+02:002011-05-24T15:02:39.051+02:00I am having difficulty leaving this comment, I kee...I am having difficulty leaving this comment, I keep getting new word verifications without anything being posted. Trying again... and again, now I'm going to try to comment as "anonymous". I'm Insidespen.<br /><br />I have read that narcissists are known to sexually abuse their own children, whom they see as "extensions of their own body". I have been concerned about this, because my ex-husband spends time alone with my little girl, usually one night a week. I don't think he is the type to do something like that, and he does not have the same red flags for child molesters as my father had. I worry that I am too paranoid about this issue because my father was a child molester and I am not very trusting of men with little children. <br /><br />I, too, have wondered if my father had abused me when I was very small and unable to tell anyone of what happened. It would not surprise me. I recall, as a child, knowing way more about the "birds and the bees" than any of my friends. I knew how babies were made at a very young age. I don't know how or why I knew these things. For now, I would rather believe that nothing happened when I was a child, because I am not sure how I would deal with horrible memories like that. I am afraid that I would not be able to focus on my children and my job if I had to deal with repressed memories. I DO have memories of inappropriate behaviour, but not actual touching. I can see this is going to warrant a new blog post for me.<br /><br />InsidesopenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-9162606765355832162011-05-24T14:03:34.969+02:002011-05-24T14:03:34.969+02:00* This is disturbing and I'm sure someone will...* This is disturbing and I'm sure someone will rightly see it as a red flag, so I'll answer a possible comment about it immediately - I have considered the possibility of my father having somehow sexually abused me, but I find I have nothing to go on except this and another inappropriate comment, made when I was 10 and complained about some older boys commenting on my butt, and his weird reaction was to say "Well, you do have a fleshy, round behind which boys will find attractive." This stuff is disgusting in and of itself. I don't have any reason to accuse him of anything beyond being able to see me in that way, and at a very young age, though.Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.com