tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post7051071493560810145..comments2023-05-24T16:57:15.030+02:00Comments on Writing the Wrongs of Narcissistic Parenting: Better Than HimPronoia Agapehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-23058096990620587252011-05-21T15:43:40.872+02:002011-05-21T15:43:40.872+02:00To me this all sounds like your parents thought of...To me this all sounds like your parents thought of you as a human lab rat...something to tinker with:( I understand, fully, why you wish you hadn't told your NF how awful his behavior was, so he would tell you more of what he did to you as a child. I guess you just had a NORMAL reaction to his evil. YOU ARE NORMAL:D<br /><br />My former SIL, my GC older brother's XW, told me the last time I saw her, that my brother spanked their oldest daughter, because she fell off her bike while trying to learn how to ride it!!! Sound familiar??? <br /><br />My NF did the same type of s**t to me, my SG younger brother and to a lesser extent, my GC older brother. I call it evil. No Contact since Sep. 2009 with my NF and EM. I chose ME, when I finally realized it was me, or them.Jasminehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07166710072227657016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-48779576950586933072011-05-20T22:13:14.158+02:002011-05-20T22:13:14.158+02:00Thank you for the hug, Jonsi! I wish you'd use...Thank you for the hug, Jonsi! I wish you'd used that time machine and busted that door open, too. Or your mom. She wouldn't have needed the time machine :)Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-61290052766503814562011-05-20T21:27:50.745+02:002011-05-20T21:27:50.745+02:00I thought this was a memory! DH doesn't rememb...I thought this was a memory! DH doesn't remember much of his childhood either. Definitely a defense mechanism. I am so afraid for you!<br /><br />Hugs, lots and lots and lots of hugs,<br /><br />JonsiJonsihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17517677634712242866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-17681191795383975332011-05-20T17:19:16.879+02:002011-05-20T17:19:16.879+02:00Jonsi, I'm hiding nothing and am very willing ...Jonsi, I'm hiding nothing and am very willing to get it all out, it's just that I don't remember! This isn't a memory, it's information he actually volunteered when I became a parent, as a cute story from my childhood! I can't even begin to imagine what he must be HIDING if he felt it was just great to SHARE THIS!<br /><br />And I discarded things like this from my "perfect parents" thinking because they didn't fit.Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-40687514555221882512011-05-20T16:48:13.702+02:002011-05-20T16:48:13.702+02:00PS. This says so much about why you have forgotten...PS. This says so much about why you have forgotten so much of your childhood...it was horrible! It's a defense mechanism to have forgotten. To remember it would mean complete destruction! You never would have survived.<br /><br />I am...just appalled. I hate hearing things like this. I know you need to speak it. Get it all out there! It's an ugly truth, but I think it is so important for you to get it out. (Not necessarily to us, just out, for your own sake!)Jonsihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17517677634712242866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-50778130261057564032011-05-20T16:45:47.034+02:002011-05-20T16:45:47.034+02:00I'm serious about rescuing you. I would call t...I'm serious about rescuing you. I would call the police. I would bust down your front door. I would go right into your bedroom and take you away from there and bring you back so you could live with me and DH and DD and DS. If I had a time machine...Jonsihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17517677634712242866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-70159785093600128212011-05-20T16:44:15.550+02:002011-05-20T16:44:15.550+02:00Oh. My. God.
Oh, I have the creepy crawlies all ...Oh. My. God. <br /><br />Oh, I have the creepy crawlies all over me and I am sickened. Just sickened by your parent's behaviors. Ohh. Man, I just keep thinking of my own DD and DS...to think of someone treating them that way.<br /><br />Insides made a great point - about how warped and twisted your father spanking you was. I mean, my god, you were a fucking baby!! Oh my god. Talk about inappropriate, disgusting, warped, fucked up, and disturbing.<br /><br />Oh. I just want to go back in time and rescue little baby PA. I would save her, I would take her far away from there so that she couldn't be hurt and abused and unloved. <br /><br />How did you make it out alive, PA???Jonsihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17517677634712242866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-88740498498932651652011-05-20T15:32:29.816+02:002011-05-20T15:32:29.816+02:00Typos in my first comment, sorry... here's wha...Typos in my first comment, sorry... here's what I meant to say:<br /><br />My God, PA, spanking a child because she cries when you wake her up from a nap seems particularly warped, even for a raging narcissist! Very very twisted! <br /><br />When you say that you made yourself think you were treated so gently as a baby, I think it was your dad's extreme manipulation that caused you to think that way!Insidesopenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096246656250990871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-89393329652714048392011-05-20T15:29:41.412+02:002011-05-20T15:29:41.412+02:00This comment has been removed by the author.Insidesopenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096246656250990871noreply@blogger.com