tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post4875253056795007428..comments2023-05-24T16:57:15.030+02:00Comments on Writing the Wrongs of Narcissistic Parenting: For Quercus Garryana - The Black HolePronoia Agapehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-42514797602619838862012-12-11T22:23:37.580+01:002012-12-11T22:23:37.580+01:00Thank you. :)Thank you. :)Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-63284781277401583602012-12-08T22:53:49.113+01:002012-12-08T22:53:49.113+01:00Lovely, honest post. Thank you. :)Lovely, honest post. Thank you. :)Judithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16354890444410748967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-89587935553309612882012-12-08T19:52:46.907+01:002012-12-08T19:52:46.907+01:00I'm thinking parents would have their kid so b...I'm thinking parents would have their kid so bowled over he wouldn't dare besmirch the family image they want to project.<br />It's just a quote from PJ that popped into my head. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-49511684241313825982012-12-08T10:51:06.564+01:002012-12-08T10:51:06.564+01:00Thank you, TW. You're one of those most import...Thank you, TW. You're one of those most important people from point #7 to me.Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-86600615949133066912012-12-08T10:45:11.461+01:002012-12-08T10:45:11.461+01:00I've thought for long, even before I was aware...I've thought for long, even before I was aware of my own narcissistic upbringing, that a kid with green hair and three or four rings in his nose probably had extraordinarily abusive parents and was trying to find a way to express this and somehow make it apparent to others. Then again, this might also be true for the timid good girl in the corner who's too afraid to even try expressing her brokenness and pain in this way. It might also be true for the ambitious extrovert collecting acquaintances and successes to finally prove to the parents inside himself that he's not totally empty and worthless. Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-65986754997447680122012-12-08T02:03:51.703+01:002012-12-08T02:03:51.703+01:00Your Point #6 made me think of this:
Suzanne is al...Your Point #6 made me think of this:<br />Suzanne is also you, PA. You were always "perfect," perfectly unique, just as you were and are. But it's been such a part of your journey to finally catch this "vision;" of this little girl, this child who should have been loved and cherished as a gift before she was nearly destroyed by those who called themselves "Parents."<br />And never were.<br /><br />(And you keep managing to pull out my favorite Leonard Cohen songs as well!)<br />TW Tundra Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12262066568878267648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-80637331981920099382012-12-07T23:46:50.877+01:002012-12-07T23:46:50.877+01:00Your point number two made me think of this.
&qu...Your point number two made me think of this.<br /><br /> "When I see a kid with green hair and three or four rings in his nose, I know there is absolutely nothing extraordinary about that person." ~P J O'Rourke<br /><br />But woe to those that dismiss the dark cynic ACON as a poser. Q Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com