tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post172702380440046143..comments2023-05-24T16:57:15.030+02:00Comments on Writing the Wrongs of Narcissistic Parenting: A Short Dictionary of ACoNesePronoia Agapehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-70053491081911471912012-10-14T08:41:01.781+02:002012-10-14T08:41:01.781+02:00Even the language is different, words are distorte...Even the language is different, words are distorted and abusive, great idea to give a starting point of words that are defined differently. Hugs. Ruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07083142637240943607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-36603986934751235542012-10-12T22:15:50.904+02:002012-10-12T22:15:50.904+02:00More than OK, I'd be flattered! Thank you for ...More than OK, I'd be flattered! Thank you for being here with us, it really means a lot to me :)Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-47168204000668128052012-10-10T22:36:45.716+02:002012-10-10T22:36:45.716+02:00I am still so new to all of this (not to being emo...I am still so new to all of this (not to being emotionally abused, but to the ACoN community, but this dictionary was so so so accurate. I should print this off to take to my therapist when I go back in a couple of weeks. Is that okay with you if I do that?<br />I have had a really hard time expressing what happened to me, and I even told my therapist just that. But I also told her how people like you have helped me to understand that there is almost a different language spoken fluently by people who were raised as we were. It intrigued her, but it may be slightly above her expertise or awareness, because she didn't have a response other then assent and understanding.<br />PA, thank you so much for the help you gave here and in other forums. It has helped me to wake up and come out of the cave of my imprisonment, too.Mareehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00898501939965152580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-6684542967955319842012-10-10T21:05:13.229+02:002012-10-10T21:05:13.229+02:00Wow. Shuddering. So apt.Wow. Shuddering. So apt.Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-63039017614658904812012-10-10T18:15:42.058+02:002012-10-10T18:15:42.058+02:00humour: an acceptable way to humilate and belittle...humour: an acceptable way to humilate and belittle<br /><br />crying: a manipulation used to create pity<br /><br />family: a mysteriously dark and dangerous place ie: Bermuda triangle or area 51<br /><br />love: a secret weapon normally kept just out of reach, often used as a motivational tool<br /><br />Trishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07023642047160256083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-44331662828671721882012-10-09T18:01:21.513+02:002012-10-09T18:01:21.513+02:00Wow, that's interesting. "Depressed"...Wow, that's interesting. "Depressed" was normal in my home, but one shouldn't really express it too much, because then one is "spoiled" and "ungrateful."Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-61899534921328151682012-10-09T17:59:31.831+02:002012-10-09T17:59:31.831+02:00I can so relate to that.I can so relate to that.Pronoia Agapehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818746040570182407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-13553955642093623532012-10-09T17:36:01.489+02:002012-10-09T17:36:01.489+02:00Happy: What I'm must pretend to be at all time...Happy: What I'm must pretend to be at all times. But not too happy.<br /><br />Depressed: The other unforgivable sin. synonyms; sad, sorrowful.Adela Albahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00378821081049143169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8855431321052371348.post-10327361801969911042012-10-09T17:07:03.810+02:002012-10-09T17:07:03.810+02:00Silence: The calm before the storm. There is fea...Silence: The calm before the storm. There is fear in the silence.Gladyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03379796403577898107noreply@blogger.com